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Not Much Money But Plenty of Happy Memories.

I moved to Dagenham with my family in 1949.  We lived in Cartwright Road off Hedgemans Road.  I have memories of long hot summer holidays off from Finneymore Road School.  The days were filled with trips to Leys swimming pool, where we would spend most of the day. We would bag of crisps and a hot Oxo drink if we had enough money.
Parsloes Park was another full day out.  The large sandpit was the favourite haunt, there were large square concrete blocks built into the pit, we would play 'King of the castle' games, where one would climb onto the block and announce they were king of the castle, only to be pushed off into the soft sand by the new king, this would amuse us for ages.  We would eat packed sandwiches, and there was plenty of water to quench our thirst from the water fountain spout.  The park wardens wore brown suits, trilby hats, brown leather boots up to their knees, and rode around the park on horses, making sure everyone was behaving.
If we didn't want to venture too far we had the field just across the road. The stream that ran the full length of the field amused us for hours. We would dig into the clay bank and make small caves where our imaginary people lived, then use clay to make dams in the shallow water. If we felt brave we would venture under the bridge that straddled Hedgemans Road, on the other side we would come out into the allotments, and soon be chased off by the gardeners tending their crops.

A trip with Mother would take us to the Old Village of Dagenham, crossing the Heathway passing the Church Elms public house onto Church Elm Lane, which led us down to the old village, passing open fields, and large green houses. Which were eventually all pulled down for new houses and the horrid high rise flats. Opposite the church was George's second-hand shop, which was filled with all sorts. I mainly chose a book for my treat, but there were toys, second-hand clothes and so on.

Another trip would be to Broad Street market. Mother would buy from one stall holder white parachute silk (surplus from the war stock) and make we three girls lovely silk dresses.

We knew all our neighbours by name. Everyone was in the same financial situation. There was no envy, items were handed down from neighbour to neighbour. Everyone was Mr or Mrs, no first name.

The big treat was to go into Woolworths on the Heathway shopping parade, and have an ice cream, green, pink and vanilla. The green would make your tongue tingle. The manageress always wore a brown suit, fitted into the waist, and she wore her hair in plaits that were fashioned around her ears, she was very strict, and took no nonsense from the naughty children.

These are just some of the happy memories from a working class background in Dagenham.

Written by Joan Cotton. To send Joan Cotton a private message, click here.

A memory of Dagenham in Essex shared on Tuesday, 21st July 2009.

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RE: RE: Not Much Money But Plenty of Happy Memories.

Hi. My name is Doreen Jones (nee Kloss). l was facinated by reading your memories of Dagenham. I also moved to Dagenham in the mid 1950s from London. I was there for 25 years. I lived in Bennetts Castle Lane, opposite what was the church, then the petrol station. I also remember a magicial childhood spent in Valance Park, with endless hours of play. It was always sunny and safe wherever we went, we would play out for hours, wandering the streets with good friends, no parents in those days to give us a lift to friends. I live in Wales now, and hopefully am soon to go and live in Canada... But I remember Dagenham with much love and affection, of times when there was not an orange-looking 'The Only Way Is Essex' person in existance. Regards, Doreen Jones.

Comment from Doreen Jones on Wednesday, 14th December 2011.

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