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Happy Days at Denford Park

I spent three happy years at Denford - the nuns loved us to pieces, and I felt that they always acted in our best interests (though maybe nowadays one might frown at some of the 'best practices' of those days ... but fashions change ....).
Sister Mary Ben driving a tractor as we picked potatoes in the autumn, picking snowdrops for Covent Garden Markets in February, roller skating, playing in overgrown bomb craters (magical - really!). Sister Mary Peter's library, our gardens with Sister Mary Anrew, roast potatoes, bread and cheese, but junket - juck. More privileged pupils had riding, dancing and tennis lessons, but I never felt disadvantaged by not having any of these 'extras.' The nuns inadvertently instilled us with the basic principles of feminism long before it became trendy. It was an all female world (except for ancient Father Darcy and Othello the handyman) and we absorbed the feeling that we (future women) were capable of doing whatever we aspired to: and all this in the 1950s!
Those three years changed me from being an insecure, academically awful child into a confident teenager, who went on to university and do OK in the world.

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A memory of Denford Park in Berkshire shared on Wednesday, 16th June 2010.

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RE: RE: Happy Days at Denford Park

I am just so shocked that I am able to find someone else that attended Denford Park. I was there for 3 years in the 1960s. Happy days or sad days, some of the nuns were wonderful and some were absolutly horrible. I do think that from all of the experiences it made me a good person. I could chat about the sour milk that was served later in the evening, the liver that I was made to eat that I actually flushed down the nearest toilet. The star system that we had to look for eagerly to find out if we were in trouble! That special day when the bell rang and we were like fools for a day, could have so much fun. The cheap labour when the floors needed a good polish, we put rags on our feet and ran like fools all over the hard wood floors to make them shine.

Comment from Margot McGrath on Tuesday, 31st August 2010.

RE: RE: Happy Days at Denford Park

I attended Denford Park for one year 1962-1963. I lLanded there because of my mother's connections with May O'Leary, an ancient nun at the Sacre Coeur, had written important books on girls education (Education with a tradition). It was ruled at the time by Mother Magdalen Johnson, presently and still at New Hall, I believe. I had just arrived from Colombia, and did not speak a word in English, for which I had a very hard time. I remember Sister Mary Peter, Sister Mary Andrews (horror of horrors ). Those were times luckily gone when physical punishment was encouraged at UK schools! In the evenings during study time we were allowed to write home once a week. I received once a big box of Huntley and Palmers biscuits from home, but the nuns had the great idea that I should share them with the whole school for supper. Even though, I have good memories: the riding, ballet lessons, swimming in the summer (previous hair- cut by the nuns ), snowdrop-picking, skating, gardening etc...

Comment from Pizano Carolina on Monday, 13th September 2010.

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