Pilgrims Way Childrens Home And St Patrick Open Air School

A Memory of Hayling Island.

I was in pilgrims way childrens home in bower mount road Maidstone from age 12-15.it was a very strict regime but I liked it there. however we were made to go to choir practice every Friday night at the Baptist church in knight riders street whether we could sing or not. there was only one outsider, a small boy in the choir. every Sunday at Sunday School Mr Loveland the head Sunday school teacher would say the Sunday School choir will now sing hymn number bla bla bla and as soon as we started signing the boys at the back would call out meow meow cats choir cats choir. Mr Loveland never stopped them and they behaved like hooligans, but one Sunday we went to morning church and every thing was normal, however when we got home the matron of the childrens home Joan Erskine was furious and told us that several female members of the church had phoned her and said that they could not tolerate us any more as we were nothing but a bunch of hooligans. well we was stunned there had not been any incident. I am sure we might have been a bit noisy walking along the road all children are especially when there are 26 of them but we were always quiet in church and it was a bit much when we were he heckled by the boys every week. that evening we were sent to the Methodist church and we were welcomed with open arms but as time went on a girl the same age as me asked me what crime I had commited to be put in a childrens home, she seemed to think that we were all criminals, this was obviously something her parents had told her. well considering the age range was 4-15 with two 17year olds who attended college you have to wonder at their sense of logic. when I was 15 Joan Erskine told me that because I was only 4ft 10 in and weighed only six and a half stone I was not strong enough to go to work but my grandmother was half Italian and of cause Italians are mostly small and I resented it as I was fit as a fiddle and hypoactive. so I was sent to St Patricks open air school Hayling Island. I hated it at first but I got used to it. the children at the childrens home and St Patrick were very nice but even at St Patricks some of the locals complained that we were hooligans when miss Hobart took us to the pictures or to the park so sister Bertha put all the smaller girls into groups and me and 5 other older girls had to take one group and keep them under control which was easy because they were all very well behaved. when I was 16 I was sent back to Maidstone to Howard House a hostel for girls for 15 -18 year olds in Lower Fant Road. in the summer the local business people would hire floats and dress up and of cause there was a beauty queens this happened in all the Medway towns. once Tommy Steele came to cinema in Chatham and Tommy kept jokingly asking to remain quiet so the teddy boys at the back kept shouting get on with it Tommy. there was plenty of factories in Maidstone so we were never out of work. I loved Maidstone


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Was this the very same Joan Erskine that was Matron at homleigh MAnor road Romford Essex?
Was this the very same Joan Erskine that was Matron at homleigh MAnor road Romford Essex?
Gladys Foley . hallo Amanda Cotterill ,Joan Erskine was at Pilgrims Way in the 1950,s but I don't know if she ever worked any where else, but she was about 5f 6in and quiet well built. she was okay but she liked to let us know that we was only there to make the number up. another thing she would tell us was that they could give us all the material things that we needed but they could not give us love. well as far as I was concerned I did not need their love, i was quiet happy with the way things were. but she was a nice lady and most of the time we called her aunty Joan.
I was also at pilgrims house I use to go to Hosey school in western am I had fond memories but can't remember many of the staffs names
I remember Molly Gibbs, Joan Erskine and Mrs Williams who gave us all half a crown on our birthday and her husband used to play cricket for kent and when it was his turn to bat the other players had to change position because he was left handed.
Hi Gladys. My name is Natasha. Not sure if you're still on here or not, but my mum "Annette" told me she used to go to Pilgrims way girls home, Maidstone, in the late 1960's. She remembers Mrs Joan Erskine, Mrs Jean Feilder, Ms Mitchell, Mrs Darren, Mrs O'Brien, Mr & Mrs Wilson, and Mrs Aubrey. And she has a load of stories about the home and the girls that went there and the staff that looked after them. She especially has a few stories about a room at the top of the stairs to the right, and how creepy things use to happen in that room and how she hated being put in there to sleep. She'd so love to reconnect with some of the girls there! Especially one girl who went there called Charlotte O'Brien, who she hasn't seen since she left there many years ago.
Hi, I was in Pilgrims way in 1958-59. I remember the creepy room - I actually saw something in it whilst laying in bed when I was sleeping in there! The room was next to the back staircase and I was not well at the time. I also lived in the cottage that was in the grounds at the back, where there was also a stable block. If you read this, Natasha, I should love to talk to Annette, if she wants. Contact odellbar@aol.com Miss Emery ran the cottage, and Joan Erskine was Matron. I used to go to the Girls Life Brigade and St Michaels school. Barb

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