Sister Enid Butler's Orphanage.
I was a child that lived at the 'Sister Butler's orphanage' in the early I960s. This message is to anyone that was also at the orphanage at that time, particularly Alison Burbidge, as I have read her account stating that Alison would have been at the orphanage at the same time as me. I have a lot of memories of the Hinton Martell, and the orphanage, such as the school over the road from the orphanage run by two sisters, we all sat on long benches. We had slates and chalk to write on, the slate had a small wood frame, I'm not joking. In the class we had a big pot-belly stove in one corner, and a picture of the Queen on the wall. I remember from the road outside the school, looking up the main street away from the village, tall trees on both sides of the road and one of them on the orphanage side was a big cherry tree. I can remember the Gipsies selling pegs on the road outside the gate at the orphanage, and they had a painted caravan drawn by a horse. The Gipsies lived in the woods not far out of the village. I remember the small sweet shop on the same side of the road as the orphanage, going to the village. I can remember seeing the old man in the shop making a cone out of paper to put the sweets in, this shop must have been a garage because it had one of those flat round wind plate signs outside the shop. I can remember the old fountain, and sitting on the side of it on a hot day. I can't think why the winter of 1963 could have done any harm to it. I can remember the rooks in the thatched roof of the orphanage, and in winter as we all lined up to cross the road to the school, the small milk bottles in their crates were always frozen so much that the silver tops would be on top of a lump of frozen milk. Every night before bed we had to drink cocoa, I hate cocoa, and I can't think why we were made to drink something like that before bed.
The orphanage must have employed people from outside the village, because I remember a French girl working for a short time. I saw my first TV at the orphanage, ''Dr Who, and ''Z Cars". Ali, yes, I remember potty time, and all of us sitting on our pots. I have a story for you. I for some reason started bed wetting, and was given a hard time for it one morning I woke all wet and just stayed in bed until everyone had gone down to breakfast, I think so they wouldn't know. Up came Sister Butler's mother, a lovely lady in her nineties. She smiled and sent me down to breakfast. When I got down everyone was looking at me, but before anyone started to tell me off for bed wetting there was a loud bump noise from upstairs. I just stood still as everyone in the room ran past me and up to see that Sister Butler's mother had dropped dead changing my sheets.
All these memories and more have come flooding back after finding yesterday on the internet, where 'Sister Butler's orphanage' was. I was taken away one night by two people to London, and they told me they were my mother and father, and after the assaults from my father it wasn't long before I wanted to go back. I ran away from home one night. My father found me. When I said where I was going it was made very clear to me that I was never to say another word about Sister Butler's.
Hinton Martell is a beautiful little village with green fields, cottages with thatched roofs and bunny rabbits, but it has a past, a very dark past in its orphanage. It has a connection to Australian history, just as the Dorset town of Tolpuddle, because some children from that orphanage were sent to Australia. We weren't all orphans, and we don't know where we came from or who we are. I am not the only one, and our story should be told. If anyone knows anything that they think would be of interest please write to my email bigheads565@gmail.com.au I would be happy to talk or help anyone with information to do with the orphanage.
Mark Allan Smith
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RE: RE: Sister Enid Butler's Orphanage.
Hi, my nan attended the orphanage at Hinton Martell in the late 1940s through to the 1950s. Her name is Michelle Le Bargy. Does anyone remember her?
Comment from Charley Miller on Monday, 22nd June 2009.
RE: RE: Sister Enid Butler's Orphanage.
Dear Mark, I've just been reading your comment re the Sister Butlers' orphanage and I would be very grateful for any further info you could give me. I live in Guernsey, Channel Isands, and during the war my parents, who married in 1938, were separated. My mum evacuated to Bridgwater with her youngest sister and my Dad never managed to get off Guernsey before the Germans occupied it. Whilst in England my mum had two daughters. The first was born in 1942 in Torquay and was adopted. The second, Michele, was born in 1945 in Bournemouth and I believe she may have been raised in the orphanage. For 53 years I believed I was an only child and then last summer, via Friends Reunited, I was contacted by Michele's grand daughter and the story began to unfold. It is my belief that my mum intended to return to get Michele after the war, and in fact she did come to live with us for a while when she was 16. Neither of us knew we were sisters. Michele remembers our mum coming to get her and then taking her back She believed she was born in Guernsey so was probably brought back and forth to the island. Is there any way I can find out about what the situation was with her? Do you have any photos of the sisters? Do you have any contacts that might know Michele Le Bargy? Do any records exist? Anyway, lots of questions! If you can help in any way I would be most grateful. sherbs@cwgsy.net Thank you, Jag Sherbourne
Comment from Jag Sherbourne on Sunday, 21st March 2010.
RE: RE: Sister Enid Butler's Orphanage.
I was bought up at St Christopher's Children's Home that was run by Sister Enid Bryson-Butler & Sister Dorothy Edenborough (not Sister Butler's mother) - I lived there from the mid 1940s until I got married in the late 1960s - sadly Sister Edenborough died in 1963 - St Christopher's was my home until Sister Butler's death in 1981 - I will gladly share my fond memories if anyone wants to know - I have a few photos of the home and a few details of the 1067 children that they looked after - I was one of the few permanent children who were left there for one reason or another. It was a great place! No dark secrets! Sally Mathurin, nee Hayter
Comment from Sally Mathurin on Thursday, 20th January 2011.
RE: RE: Sister Enid Butler's Orphanage.
I went to the orphanage when I was born in 1941 and stayed until 1957. I remember Sally Hayter, Peter Edenborough, Michelle Butler, Michelle Le Bargy and David Lincoln. Does anybody remember me? (The girl with the red hair). e-mail: alwarm@virginmedia.com Janet
Comment from Janet Lewis on Saturday, 28th May 2011.
RE: RE: Sister Enid Butler's Orphanage.
I was at St Christopher's from a baby (1960) with my big sister Liz who is 4 years older than me. I remember many things and have fond memories (except for the fire that burnt the home down; in 1965 I think). A wonderful place to grow up in and I only remember nice things. I have no photos or other records of being there and the subject was never discused in the new family my sister and I went too.
Comment from Steve Owen-Hughes on Sunday, 5th June 2011.