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Great Grandfather West

I have no personal memories of Kirkstead, but it was an important place in the history of my family.   

My great grandfather, William Gilbert West, and his wife Rebecca farmed somewhere in the Kirkstead area during the 1870s.  From census entries we know that their 9th, 10th and 11th children, all girls, were born there, the first of these being in 1874.  The three girls were Gertrude (my grandmother), Nellie and Alice West.

The family must have moved to Kirkstead from the coast in the early 1870s.  The births of the previous children had been registered in Hogsthorpe or Trusthorpe. The 1891 census shows them as having returned to Hogsthorpe (where Rebecca had been born) and Chapel-St-Leonards, but exactly when they went we don't know.  

As a child I knew some of William Gilbert's and Rebecca's children as great aunts. Of the three sons I never knew Richard and William Gilbert who must have died before I was born. The third son, and sixth child, Walter, had emigrated to the USA. I have no memories of the two oldest girls, Mary and Lizzie, although I believe I can remember being taken to see the third, Great Aunt Carrie, when I was very small. I have a picture in my mind of a frail elderly lady dressed in black, old-fashioned clothes sitting in a wicker bath chair! She must have been very old, as she was over eighty when I was born!  The remaining great aunts, Maude, Beatrice, Nellie, Alice and, of course, my grandmother, hold much clearer memories for me.

As well as being a farmer my great grandfather was a Methodist Local Preacher and a frequent visitor to chapels all over, I assume, the Spilsby circuit. Family tradition has him as a bit of a tyrant, but I have no idea whether this description really matches the man. My grandmother told stories of her childhood which, I now know, had Kirkstead as their backdrop!     

I am trying to discover more about this family.  

A memory of Kirkstead in Lincolnshire shared on Friday, 26th June 2009.

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RE: RE: Great Grandfather West

I live in a cottage in Kirkstead that was probably built about 1850. Kirkstead Parish is quite a small place that is now part of Woodhall Spa. Have you visited it and its 12 Century church, which is next to the Abbey ruin?. If not, would you like me to look for the home of your ancestors? Do you have an address from the Census Returns.

Family history was our main hobby for over 40 years.

Comment from Barbara Hodgkinson on Sunday, 3rd January 2010.

RE: RE: Great Grandfather West

Many thanks, Barbara Hodgkinson, for your comment and offer! Since posting my original memory in June, I have visited Kirkstead and found the family home: Abbey Farm - on whose land are the abbey ruins and the church you mention. I was lucky enough to be taken round the farmhouse by the current owner who has old maps and documents about it! It was amazing to see the rooms where my ancestors once lived and worked. Is your cottage near to the farm?

The trip to Lincs. brought this reward and also finding the sites or homes of married great aunts in Saleby, Authorpe Row, Candlesby including the farm of my eldest great aunt and her husband: Mary and Jonathan Lancaster: Hanby Hall (now pulled down) near Welton-le-Marsh. This was a place my father visited often and told many stories of. A very kind neighbour of the Hall gave us a lovely photo of it as it had been!

It was disappointing to find almost no family graves - we know many were buried in Hogsthorpe and Chapel-St.-Leonard's graveyards, but most seem to have disappeared, whether through erosion or clearance? I'd love to hear from anyone who knows about these graveyards or any West or Lancaster graves in the area.

A final memory of mine is meeting a very old man in 1953 who was described as the lodger of my great aunt Nellie in Chapel-St.-Leonards. They lived in a tumbledown cottage (long gone!) accessed by a wooden bridge over the dyke not far from the church. We knew him as Billy Bunting and I think he was a painter, but I can find no census record of him. I wonder if anyone in the area has heard of him?

Comment from Jennifer Bell on Monday, 4th January 2010.

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