Schooldays at Arley Castle
I went to Arley Castle as a boarder in 1943/44. It made a lasting impression on me. The Arboretum was my favourite place and we had names for many of the trees which we would climb from time to time. Miss Kell and Miss Whitehouse were the two Headmistresses. Rules were strict and if we were naughty (talking after lights out etc) we could be given the task of peeling onions or pulling up stinging nettles in the vast grounds. I always kept a penny under my pillow to give to the Ferryman in case I wanted to run away! My dormitory was called 'Valentia' and there was also the Valential Hotel where I went for half term lunch with my parents.
My name was Pat Horwitch and I used to become homesick quite frequently. I learned the piano and because of regular practice times (outside Miss Kell's study). I actually did get a distinction of which I was very proud. I made a nostalgic visit back to Arley a few years ago. The castle no longer is there - just the little church where we went on Sunday morning. I hadn't realised what a gorgeous little village it was and I felt so emotional as I walked along the River Severn and saw that the Valentia Hotel was still there, though obviously had a 'face lift.'
Memories are so precious and the experiences part of the tapestry of our lives. My home was on the outskirts of Birmingham and I will never forget the very first time I was put on the train - first to Bewdley - then Kidderminster and finally Upper Arley - in my brand new uniform, feeling slightly terrified at leaving my loving family - my parents and three sisters. We arrived in the dusk and the castle looked forbidding and unfriendly. We were taken into the dining room where Miss Kell was waiting to welcome us - girls returning from the holidays and new girls like me. The dormitory was cold but soon we were in bed - thoughts racing in bewilderment at this new and strange life that was so different from home. Matron came in to check on us to be followed the next morning at 6.30am with another visit and a cry of "Up, up, up girls." So it all began. We were to be educated like young ladies.
Food was rationed due to war time restrictions so afternoon tea was either bread and jam or bread and margarine. If we were naughty and put off 'tuck' then it was definitely bread and margarine! If a girl was fortunate enough to have been sent a cake by her mother, it had to be shared with the whole table. After tea we had an hour to ourselves to read or play and then it was into the Homework Room until bed time.
On Saturday mornings we had a bath and hair wash and then a sewing lesson. In the afternoon we had free time to wander about the arboretum, find secret little spots nestled amonst the trees or climb trees. On Sunday it was church and in the afternoon a walk in crocodile fashion, two by two, and we would stop and scrump some wild apples and then in the evening Miss Whitehouse would read us a story - usual in serial form each week. I kept a calendar of my own making on the toilet door to indicate how many days 'til the end of term and mark it off each day. Half term was cause for great excitement as our relatives came to take us out for lunch. Prior to breaking up at the end of term we would march through the castle singing at the top of our voices "This time next week where shall I be? Not in this academy, no more beetles in my tea, making googly eyes at me, no more spiders in my bath, trying hard to make me laugh" etc. etc. Sometimes I would take a girl home with me. One such girl, Beth Pope, was often there in the holidays because her parents were in India and it was good fun to take her home with me.
There are many memories stored in my 'memory bank' of Arley and the castle and even now, when I hear little birds twittering in a certain way, waves of nostalgic memories wash over me and I'm once again that little girl in that big castle.
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I am so delighted to find that Arley is still remembered! I have read the posted comments and remember some of you, Beth Pope is mentioned and she used to come home with me at half-terms as her parents were abroad, and Janet Mills who played so beautifully, we did keep in touch for a bit as she met her husband through me, she then became Janet Ketnor and I would love to hear from her. I was Monica Baines amd ended up as head girl, how I do not know, so I and the prefects had quite a bit of freedom and we used to walk along the river on Sunday afternoons with the dog, I can remember him, though not his name, or that of his owner, the Head. I seem to have done something wrong as I tried to send a comment a couple of days ago,and did Email a couple of people who had left their addresses, so here is hoping this time it will work. Looking forward to a response soon, Monica
Comment from Monica Baker-White on Wednesday, 11th May 2011.
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I was delighted to find this website and read the comments of other past pupils of Arley Castle where I was from 1946 to 1951. I remember many of the names mentioned, and wondered what happened to everyone. I remember the Rev Trewella on the hockey field, he was then vicar of Alveley where I now live. The big triangle now seems a long way, one side of which I drive along regularly between the Red Lion (now closed) and Shatterford on my way to the shops in Kidderminster. I still have photos of the 'puddle', the 'wishing well' and some of the girls - Sheila Fillery, Judith Godley, Diana Edwards, Ann Dennis, Janet Fasey, and Joan Gooch among them. It was a shame the castle had to be pulled down, but I do remember how cold it was - I still get chilblains. Although I was not exeptional academically, I am sure my time there has been useful through life. If anyone does come back, I would love to meet up and they are welcome to visit me. Sheila Maiden
Comment from Sheila Maiden on Monday, 21st May 2012.
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Do any of you remember me? Pat Horwitch in Valentia Dormitory? I knew Beth Pope well and Marion Goldfarb as well as Janette Stewart (Stew). Would love to know who's left now.
Comment from Patricia Reeves on Thursday, 3rd May 2012.
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I did enjoy the comment from "name witheld" about the cutlery we had to take. My mother also splashed out on posh cutlery, but all that remains (with me) is the table knife which is brilliant for spreading butter, used continually, and a dessert fork with bent tines, good for mashing. They are both engraved on the handles. Somewhere the rest of the set must be languishing, including the "tea knife" which had a patterned blade and my name written in indelible ink on the ivory/bone handle. If they ever surface in a charity shop near you - do please let me know! (el_jo_ha@yahoo.co.uk). Thanks to this page I have been able to meet up with Helen, and had some fascinating e.mails from Marilyn. So thank you, The Francis Frith Collection!
Comment from Joan Hart (nee Ward) on Tuesday, 29th November 2011.
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Hello Helen, so pleased to read your comment and share more memories. Did you receive the private message I sent? When I returned home after that 1947 winter my impoverished mother could not believe the size of my medical bill, as I had not, to her knowledge, been ill. It was all that cod liver oil and malt, sucked off the spoon like a lollipop and dipped into the jar again whenever matron glanced elsewhere; just like an overdose of toffee - I still enjoy it occasionally. Your memories jogged mine considerably. It is strange how we remember different things. Sonia, who does not do computers, remembers weeding paths as punishment, and learning all names of trees and tastes of herbs, sometimes causing interesting side effects. Sundays were then about the smell of my Sunday dress and taste of my hat elastic, plus the forgettable sermons delivered, I think, by a very old vicar? I am pleased to say that since then Christianity has become vital to me, and who knows what those early days may have sub-consciously contributed to who and what we have become?
Comment from Joan Hart (nee Ward) on Friday, 29th April 2011.
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Hello Joan I have a photo somewhere of you, Marilyn White and Jante Fazey with our hockey sticks outside the Seior Common room windows. I remember Sonia and Janet Johnson (who gave me the only riding lesson I ever had) and Sonia's talent for drawing horses! I also remmember using the tin trays form the pantry as sledges during that 1947 winter - we wore all the brown paint off the bottoms. Arley is the only place where I suffered with chillblains and Matron used to put 'Grasshopper ointment' on them, I don't think to any efffect. I remember Sunday walks around the 'Big Triangle' and very muddy ones along the wooded banks of the river. Yes, Loppity Loo and the Boot Room where the Tuck Cupboard was situated. Climbing the beech tree, Puddles, in the arboretum - I think there were other trees with nicknames but I never dared to try them. Then there was the Guide Company run by Rosemarie Bow (any relation to the Bow family mentioned in Angela's comment above?). I think a Mrs Watkins was the cook. Funny how things surface once you start thnking. Sorry to hear of Janet Johnson's death.
Comment from Helen Cornwall-Jones on Thursday, 3rd March 2011.
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It was my twin brother who e-mailed me about this site, saying he did not know I had been a dorm captain - neither did I! My memory is dreadful, but has been stimulated over the last year by getting in touch with Sonia Jenkinson, anyone remember her? I, too, had my first chilblains during the 1947 winter. I remember our rationed 2oz.of butter floating in jam jars containing salt water, hoping to make it last for a week (it never did), footprints of mice on the bread which was spread with margarine the day before and also tasted dubious, and pinching slices of bread to 'toast' by throwing onto the junior sitting room fire. Being easily led, Janet Johnson (who sadly died 2 years ago) and I joined Sonia riding the ponies in the park, and even tried to harness a cow. She has remained horse mad to this day! The running round the arboretum, the needlework while listening to stories, the climbing up drainpipes to get back in after playing truant, and seeing staff with their torches looking for us, the siestas, the calling of wood pigeons, the walks. The walks! I often had blood on my socks, those war-time shoes were rigid and caused some wonderful blisters....and yet later on walking was to become my most enjoyable pursuit. Loppity Loo? On reflection I think the empiness I used to feel was home sickness, yet when home for the holidays I could not wait to get back. Thanks for these memories.
Comment from Joan Hart (nee Ward) on Tuesday, 21st December 2010.
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I was interested to find this web site. I enjoyed my days at Arley, I was there from some time in 1943 to the end of the war. I have happy memories of Saturday evenings being read to by Miss Whitehouse in the junior sitting room. I and a few other girls saved some food and went up the tower in the middle of the night for a feast, I don't to this day know how we were not caught. I have been back to Arley fairly often and enjoyed visiting the church, and also the Arboretum when open to the public. I still have the school prospectus and can fill a few gaps for you as to the history of the school. The school was founded by Miss O Johnston in1899 and moved to Arley castle in 1923. I have no idea where the school was before 1923. Miss Kell and Miss Whitehouse took over from her when she retired. The Castle was bought by the Woodward family in 1852 from the Mountnorris family and owned by them until sold. (My husband and I were visiting the church on day when a lady stopped to talk to us and when she heard our name was Norris she asked if we were related to the Mountnorris family!!!). You may find it interesting to know that the fees were £35.00 for under 12 years of age and £42.00 for over 12, plus medical attendance of 17 shillings and sixpence and laundry £1-14-6 per term.
Comment from Josephine Norris Nee Wilson on Saturday, 11th December 2010.
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Hi, I was really interested to see the comments about Arley Castle. I was at the school from 1946 to 1948 and yes, I remember the rationing! Bread was one slice with jam, or margarine scrape with tuck on alternate days. Coal also was rationed so there were very few fires and we wore mittens during the class and sometimes the ink froze. Despite the drawbacks it was a great experience and the twice daily run round the arboretum was undoubtably good for us! That was on weekdays. On Sunday after church we had to go on a long hike of several miles.
I have no photos of the interior of the castle but quite a few of the grounds and students and teachers. Of course I can see every bit of the interior in my mind and could draw most of it! The last time I was at Arley was in 1949. I don't know when the school closed, but I received a cutting in the mail in 1962 that reported the demolition of the castle. Very sad, but it was falling down even when I was there. I had hoped they might spare the manor house part.
The winter of 1946-47 was memorable for its cold and snow. Everything was frozen, including us, and when the thaw came in March with a tremendous wind there were ninety trees down, everything flooded and the school cut off except across the fields.
The only name I remember of the non teaching staff is Walter Watmore who lived in the little lodge attached to the walled garden.
Beth Pope was a friend and she was a marvellous pianist. She and Janet Mills were great at playing duets. I have often wondered about the people I knew there.
Comment from Marilyn Wheeler on Tuesday, 2nd February 2010.
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Hi I love your enjoyable memories of being at school in Arley.. I am wondering whether you remember any of the general staff such as the cook, maids etc at Arley Castle in about 1941-2 to the end of war. I am only asking as I think my nan, Dorothy Wrench, was working at the castle at that time. She was born in Arley and her maiden name was Bow (her father was James Bow.,who was the ferryman for a time). She had lots of brothers and sisters so you may have come across them? She had lived in Shirley, Birmingham for a while after her marriage, then during the war had the opportunity of moving her family to Arley for safety. She had a family of boys. I look forward to hearing from anyone that may help!
Comment from Angela Wrench on Tuesday, 19th January 2010.
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Hello Christine
As far as I know the Castle was built in 1844 but I don't know when it was first set up as a school. I will try find out though. Sadly no photos were taken but I do have memories of the interior. The large dining room with its long table. We had 'tuck' for afternoon tea consisting of bread, margarine and jam but if we'd been naughty we were put off tuck and only had bread and margarine! I had my share of that too!! We had to take our own cutlery. My parents purchased some very grand cutlery and had my name engraved on it. The only time I managed to get it was when it was my turn to set the tables and that was very exciting to me. Strange to look back on these funny little events. Arley was indeed a gorgeous little village - still is. I returned 3 years ago and was overcome with nostalgia. The Valencia Hotel on the river is still there, though updated. My parents would take me there at half time for lunch - a grand occasion. If I can find out more about the history, I'll let you know.
Comment from Name withheld on Saturday, 15th August 2009.
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Hello Christine
As far as I know the Castle was built in 1844 but I don't know when it was first set up as a school. I will try find out though. Sadly no photos were taken but I do have memories of the interior. The large dining room with its long table. We had 'tuck' for afternoon tea consisting of bread, margarine and jam but if we'd been naughty we were put off tuck and only had bread and margarine! I had my share of that too!! We had to take our own cutlery. My parents purchased some very grand cutlery and had my name engraved on it. The only time I managed to get it was when it was my turn to set the tables and that was very exciting to me. Strange to look back on these funny little events. Arley was indeed a gorgeous little village - still is. I returned 3 years ago and was overcome with nostalgia. The Valencia Hotel on the river is still there, though updated. My parents would take me there at half time for lunch - a grand occasion. If I can find out more about the history, I'll let you know.
Comment from Name withheld on Saturday, 15th August 2009.
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Hello Pat, I found your recount of Arley Castle interesting and was wondering if you have memories of the actual inside of the building or even any photos. It seems so sad that a building spanning so many years could have been allowed to disappear in the course of one year. It was one man's vision in the 19th century to create such a beautiful place but I guess we must be thankful that his life's work and dedication of seed collection and planting can still be enjoyed, now open to the public.
Would you know from when to what date Arley Castle actually functioned as a school?
I remember my aunt telling me of her happy memories of camping around Arley in the 1930s when she was about 17 years old and she constantly held dear how precious the village was to her.
Comment from Christine Heinz on Thursday, 13th August 2009.
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I too, had very fine cutlery with my name engraved on them. I hardly every had them though, except when it was my turn to lay the table! I only have the knife left and when I use it, memories come flooding back. I wonder what happened to Miss Kell and Miss Whitehouse, after the castle was pulled down. Pat Horwitch.
Comment from Patricia Reeves on Wednesday, 23rd May 2012.