At Rope Hill 1956 1958

A Memory of Boldre.

I must say that my memories of Rope Hill while CGC Arch was Headmaster are not particularly happy ones.
I remember him as a sadistic, flatulent fellow who was fond of the cane. Perhaps I was too much of a troublemaker.
Some of the people I remember.....
Staff:
Edwards, older, stout, taught Latin, easily distracted and enraged in class. favorite swear words "Damn me......"
Paul Rowland, taught English, was a writer of satiric novels, one of which featured wise crows as heroes (at least, that's my memory). he was one of the kinder teachers i encountered there, and inspired me to become a writer (something I just do for my own amusement, not publication).
Matron (and pubescent daughter Claudia....fodder for many schoolboy fantasies, she lived with her Mum next to one of my dorms.) Matron a bit severe, germanic. My mother always thought there was something odd about her relationship with Arch (lovers, siblings....?)

Students:
Schofield....known as Scoffa-woffa.
The Popes Major, Minor and Minimus....all good athletes. Remember getting concussed after foolishly tackling Pope Senor head-on in rugby .
Herbert...American student
Dick Mitham....a good friend, remember shooting with his 410 shotgun on a visit to his family farm.
Atkinson....introduced me to self-abuse.
And a strange, slightly autistic genius who studied the British Railways timetables constantly, and who we would tease with questions like "Donald, I need to get to Edinburgh from Kent. Whens' the next train?" He usually had an answer. Don't recall his last name.

Other memories:
Long runs through the country roads around the school.
Miserable, tear-stained journeys by train back to school. One embarrassing and funny (in retro) story about one of these rides back to school with Mum, in a crowded train compartment: I'm reading Camp on Blood Island about prisoners of the Japanese in WWII, came across a word I did not know: "Mum, what's fornication?"
Dead silence settles over the compartment, Gamely, Mum starts out with "Well, you know how they make babies..........". Embarrassed silence on my part follows.......
Boxing in the gym. Who was that ex-military sergeant Someone who was in charge of PE? Very military bearing. Used to do fancy tricks on Field Day at the end of our demonstrations.....running somersaults over multiple students crouched in a row. Stuff like that.
Tuck box time: lining up weekly(?) for a chance to take out one or two items from the tuck box, while Matron oversaw and prevented gluttony.
A visit from a sister school for girls: hopelessly inadequate opportunity to develop some social skills with the fairer sex. I remember afterwards writing to one of the girls; the letter started out something like "Several of the boys here are vying for your favor......." No wonder i was a late bloomer with women.

Ah well, that's about all I can dredge up.
Would like to hear from others who recognize any of this....... Steve Brooks


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Brooks a name I remember well. John Glassford I was at Rope Hill from 1955-1957. I am writing up my memories and have a few pics of our days there. We used to box each other and you always won!!!! You were right about Mr. Arch a sadistic chap. My game was football (soccer) I did get my school colours. I was in Clark House and I am looking for copies of The Stag that I did have once. I am close to 77 and live in New South Wales Australia. Still working as a manufacturer of super insulated panels for houses. I hope you are able to write back to me wither here or to my email jacksflat@gmail.com. Would love to share some of the photos I have with you. Went to Canford and then Edinburgh Uni. If you remember I lived in Kenya and used to fly home every school holidays. So many memories some good some not so good.
John,
Delighted and surprised to get a response, and yes, I'd love to see and hear more about your memories of CGC and Rope Hill. I must admit that I don't remember you specifically (sorry about that); do you any photos of a younger you?
I see you live in Australia now; my family moved to the US when I was 16, so I'm a hybrid now.
Here's my email address so we can communicate directly: stephenbrooks2124@gmail.com.
I look forward to hearing from you. (I may have lost an email you sent with your email address in it).
Steve Brooks.
Larry Jennings Rope Hill 1953-8. Have put some reminiscences on another page on this site, in looking for it again I found this one! I remember J. Glassford you were in in my dormitory and on your thirteenth birthday you reared up and shouted 'I'm a crazy teenager' waking us all up! Oh dear memories of prep school in the 50s, not so good, with behaviour from masters that these days would have them locked up. I was a dreamy boy, also pretty reluctant to learn, lazy and stubborn. Sending me to boarding school at barely 7 probably not a good idea-far too sensitive- fortunately I recouped later, after passing CE at Edinburgh House having been moved from Rope Hill I spent an equally miserable 3 years at public school and really only found my feet in my early 20s. Recouped my education, made a fantastic marriage, and had a career in social work so it's all come out in the wash. Some hurts never die though, you just come to terms with them. Yes, I recall being beaten regularly by Mr Arch, but the amazing thing was that they were usually for trivial offences, albeit repeat ones, such as taking in class or forgetting things. Really serious ones, such as kicking Mr Mooney on the shin when he bawled me out and clouted me in class, or flooding the headmaster's lounge when I left a basin tap on in the room above causing hundreds of pounds worth of damage and putting it out of bounds for weeks, I seemed to get clean away with. The relationship between Mr Arch and Mrs Burbidge was indeed one of stormy lovers, I was a bad sleeper and on visits to the loo after midnight would hear them screaming at each other. Illness seemed regularly to sweep through the school, the flu epidemic of 1957 badly hit us, the treatment was starvation apart from a couple of pieces of unbuttered toast every couple of hours with a revolting glucose drink. How dreadful I felt for a couple of weeks, having unbelievable delirium and the dorm seemingly swimming- ghosts. monsters, the lot. Good memories- friendships, the idyllic grounds and surroundings, walks, including the crocodile to Boldre Church on Sundays. Overall, the food wasn't that bad- especially 'Mushte' the delicious oat based soft muesli that was soaked overnight. Was the cook or Mrs Burbidge of E European origin? Though I do remember the slimy undercooked fried egg that I left and was made to eat after it had been stacked between plates for half an hour.
Larry,
I remember matron as German.
Stephen thanks for commenting. It may be Mrs Burbidge was German. I think she was the instigator of 'mushte'(which could be incorrect spelling). I cannot find any reference to it on the internet. However 'mush' seems to be a rather unattractive name for muesli soaked overnight, in several languages. It could be a regional dish in Germany, with a distinctive local name.

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