Little Pond House At Tilford
A Memory of Frensham.
My wife's health was not that good, and, in 1961, she was sent for a recuperative fortnight at the Little Pond House. It was a convalescent home for children used by the NHS and had also been home to children from Europe sent there by International Help for Children after the war. During August, 2010 we managed to track it down and were shown round what is now a care home: it brought back many memories for my wife. When she was sent there in 1961, her mother in Winchmore Hill had packed a suitcase of clothes. This stayed unopened as she was given clothes to wear by the LPH staff.
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For reasons not fully understood apart from problems my mother was going through after her separation from my father, my older brother and I were sent here for a 2 week stay.
My Elder sister stayed with my mother at home. I was probably about 6 or 7 at the time my brother a year older.
This was a large house full of children of all ages but mainly 6-12 guess. I have memories of large groups sitting around a large wooden table, drawing, colouring and writing. This same table used as a dining room table where you were forced to eat your meal which I can remember being disgusting in the main.
The couple who ran this "FACILITY" were called Jack and Mary. The former HADTO BECALLED " UNCLE JACK".
This couple could be classed nothing less than Child Abusers. I remember if you done anything slightly against the rules, set up by this couple, you were PUNISHED.
One evening, I can recall as clear as it was yesterday, we were all sitting around the dining table and I didn't want to eat anymore of the meal given. I was sent out of the room and told to stand outside in the corridor and face the wall. This was a common occurrence for many children at the time.
Within a few moments I noticed "Uncle Jack" come out of a room, walk down the corridor towards me. I just froze in fear as to what was happening. He then without question or any comment pulled down my trousers and pants and began smacking my bare backside. I remember screaming and my Elder brother crying out for it to stop.
This happened to many children during my2 week stay. On another occationwe weretaken to the seaside, I dont recall where , but this was arranged by the house for couples to arrive and take children out for the day. I distinctively remember my brother and me in the back of this car and being given boiled sweets, I even remember the sweets, the ones wrapped in a type of greaseproof paper with a soft centre.
I cant help but wonder even today if this couple were potential foster parents just accessing if we were suitable to be fostered by them or just a nice couple taking us for a trip. I too as others have said remember the garden, animals, sand pit and climbing frame.
As we were far to young to remember all the details of this place, I can say without dought, the memories i do have are all very sad indeed.
I hope that all others that see these messages on this forum are now safe and well and that their personal memories of this awfull place are not as bad as mine, however I fear many will ha e similar stories.
I read so many years ago that Jack and Mary had passed away. I only wish they were still around or my memories could have been shared when I was much younger, only to have had these two people face justice and be locked up for their mental, physical and sexual abuse towards young children in their so called "care".
I was there for two weeks back in the summer of 1970.
' Uncle Jack and auntie Mary weren't very nice people. It was like a borstal.
I never wanted to go back there again