Burseledon Annexe

A Memory of Bursledon.

I was only 3 when I stayed here, convalesing after meningitis. According to my Dad's photographic records, I stayed there for two months, (April / May 1975). I have three memories of the place, which are mixed. Firstly, of crying as I waved my parents goodbye on their weekly visits, looking out a window as they went down a long tree lines road which bent to the left as I remember. The effect of this was that I cried again when I was taken to have my photograph taken at school for the first time a couple of years later. Separation anxiety. Secondly, I was made to sit in a hot bath by the nurse bathing me. As a child, I would never sit in a bath as a result. Finally, a happy memory. Of the big patio and low wall with steps down down to the lawn. Long after this visit, I retained a toy tractor. Inside the cab was a loose figure of a farmer. My Dad told me the reason why he was looose was a girl threw it down the stairs.


Added 11 November 2016

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I was sent there for 6 weeks in 1971. I have no idea why and neither does my mother. I was 10 and it was frightening to be sent away. After 2 weeks I was allowed home for the weekends but that actually made things harder to cope with because then each week I was ripped away from my family. I remember that I was made to drink tea - having never had it before and I hated it. There was children there with huge medical and mental conditions and I didn't understand - I had never seen people like that before. I made friends with a girl who was learning to administer daily injections for diabetes. There was no schooling and my last night was 23 Dec and I was the only child left. I slept in a huge ward all alone with giant teddies. There was play time and some memories that were positive. But most of all I remember not know why was there and how happy and warm home seemed (and how I felt left out) and how cold the hospital was that I spent all week in. It's unthinkable now that you would remove a child from a happy middle class home and place somewhere without your parents actually knowing why.
I went there in around 1973/74 aged 4 or 5. I had been in hospital with an asthma attack but have no knowledge as to why I went there instead of going home. My 89 year old father has no recollection. I didn't like it at all, not sure how long I was there but remember being very unhappy, all I wanted to go was go home.

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