Eighton Lodge
A Memory of Eighton Banks.
I stayed at Eighton Lodge mother and baby home for 8 weeks; end of January to March 1974. I was 16 at the time and an unmarried mother. I lived in Benton, Newcastle, with my parents and 5 siblings. I shared a room at Eighton Lodge with a girl from Middlesborough and we were good friends while we were there. I have very mixed memories, some very sad, though, I can remember being quite happy and content. I was well cared for and the Matron was kind and compassionate. We all had chores to do in the morning and if we had no visitors we were able to go out in the afternoons. The majority, if not all babies born whilst I was there were taken away for adoption and these are my sad memories, the despair on those girls faces will stay with me forever. I was one of the lucky ones, I had wonderful supportive parents and took my son home with me after leaving hospital.
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I can't remember anyone I was there with. Do remember a 12 year old coming in and us all being told to not speak to her. Dreadful people!
It was a good place to be...
Had good friends.
Yes we were allowed out on an afternoon,
Difficult times
Remember sharing a room with Marie
And other girls there Denise , Elizabeth and Jeanette amongst others
Jeanette is the one I worry about she had a baby called James
Had my daughter in Queen Elizabeth's October 4th 1978
I was so relieved to be in Eighton Lodge away from my mother
I looked after my baby for a week then had to leave her behind , heart breaking I have never put this to peace
My social worker Mrs Hutchinson would not tell me how my baby was no photographs horrible woman
Eventually my Dad persuaded my mother to have Rachel back she wouldn't have it, I had to beg and eventually my mother threatened her with police if my baby wasn't returned
She really lost It and started to rant
That she had a good home for her a consultant and his nurse wife they had a big house and my child would be privately educated , I was letting her down , how would she face them , they were neighbours and friends of her and she socialised with them
I collected my baby from a house in Gateshead
Rachel went to university is married and I have grand children hard times but we survived
Saw Hutchinson in Newcastle once nasty woman